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              1. 如何知道自己所想要的生活?

                2021-04-20 07:28:39 作者:admin

                职业咨询中还有一些更深刻的须要咨询师介入的伎俩可以辅助来访者懂得自己,不过这些对常人来说,以上应当基础够用了。但是,这个问题真正庞杂起来,其实是从你逐渐开端意识到自己大体上想要什么样的生涯开端的……事实上很多人原来Miserably as Arnold had passed the winter in his camp, as spring approached he again planted his batteries above Quebec, but produced so little effect that Carleton lay still in expectation of his reinforcements on the breaking up of the river. On the 1st of April General Wooster arrived, and took the command, much to the disgust of Arnold, who was sent to command a detachment at[224] Montreal. On the 1st of May, General Thomas, who was to be supreme in command, arrived, and found the forces amounting to about two thousand men. The river was now opening; and on the 6th of May three English ships had made their way up to Quebec, full of troops. Two companies of the 29th Regiment and one hundred marines were immediately landed amid the rejoicings of the inhabitants; and General Carleton gave instant orders to issue forth and attack the American lines. But General Thomas, conscious that, so far from being able to take Quebec, he should be himself taken, unless he decamped with all haste, was already on the move. General Carleton pursued him vigorously, and the retreat of the Americans became a regular rout. They threw themselves into boats at the Three Rivers, leaving behind them all their artillery and stores, as well as the sick, who were numerous, the smallpox having broken out amongst them. Thomas managed to reach Fort Chambly and St. John's on the Sorel; but there he died, having taken the smallpox.也不是完整不知道自己想要什么生涯,不过是被下面这个问题卡住了——

                我在个人和职业咨询中曾经听到n+1人说:我想要这样的生涯,但是我爸/我妈/我奶奶/我女朋友/我亲戚/我同窗/我老师/社会/学校/社区……不会认同我的/会看不起我/不会支撑我/会说我不孝顺/会讥笑我……这时候问题就来了,你是要寻求自己想要的生涯呢,还是要寻求别人想要你过的生涯呢?而这里开端才是摸索和决定真正开端的点。通常,只有断定了自己与他人生涯的界线,明白了自己独立的自我认同,一个人才会觉得自己能够大声去说、实际去过“自己想要的生涯”。不过很多人并不必定能走到这一步。(另外还要阐明一下,人也并不是非要走到独立这一步。寻求别人想要你过的生涯也是一种人生,如果满足别人对你的等待就是你最终为自己决议的“想要的生涯”,那也一样是可以的。)